Using a large tablecloth made especially for the bride (a Christian tradition) or The material for the Chuppah (a Jewish wedding canopy)

A Chuppah is the canopy under which the wedding ceremony takes place. It is an important part of the Jewish wedding. The actual meaning of the word is simply “cover”. It symbolizes the coming together of the Bride and Groom under one roof. It is open from all directions to symbolize open mindedness of the new couple towards each other as well the couple’s open heart to whomever may need their help. Some couples choose to use a canopy that has been created by a friend or family member, one that has been used in the family before, or one that is made from a fabric which is meaningful to the couple (such as from Grandma's holiday tablecloth, a relative's prayer shawl, etc.)

While no similar custom exists in the Christian tradition (a similar custom does exist in other cultures, though), there is a beautiful old Christian custom that the mothers of the groom and bride sew together a special table cloth with a special blessing for peace in the house to be used as the first table cloth of the young couple’s kitchen.

In combining these two traditions, a Chuppah can be made of a special large cloth decorated with a special blessing for the newlyweds. Just remember that the size must be able to accommodate at least the bride, groom, the officiant(s) and a small table.

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